Your ex wants to get back together? Why? Is it going to get you where you want to go? Is it going to make you a better and more secure person if you do get back together? Is your heart in it? If not then you probably don’t need to be getting back together. If the result of the two of you getting together is like a volcano exploding then you don’t need to get back together. All of this may be totally clear in your head but in theirs it may seem lie the world is crashing down. Do you get back together for them? That is going to have to be something that you decide when ex want to get back together.
Jaynie Maddison is a professional counsellor and is trained to work with people who are troubled about a relationship problem. She helps people think about their relationships and resolve some of the conflicts and tension

