Have you decided to get back together with an ex partner? When the break up occurred, it was probably a bad time for you, so hopefully you have allowed some time to pass. Now that you are ready to get back on the horse again, deciding to get back with an ex is a normal feeling.
Jaynie Maddison is a professional counsellor and is trained to work with people who are troubled about a relationship problem. She helps people think about their relationships and resolve some of the conflicts and tension
For many who want to win an ex back the most difficult part of it is overcoming the pain and humiliation that came from the breakup, especially if you were dumped. It may very well be that part of the reason that you were let go was that you lacked self confidence. Whether you were strong before the break up or not, you may be at your weakest point. The most tempting thing to do is to wear your heart on your sleeve. This may be the worst thing that you can do, though, and will not enable you to win an ex back. It may make it near impossible to win and ex back.
Jaynie Maddison is a professional counsellor and is trained to work with people who are troubled about a relationship problem. She helps people think about their relationships and resolve some of the conflicts and tension
Your ex wants to get back together? Why? Is it going to get you where you want to go? Is it going to make you a better and more secure person if you do get back together? Is your heart in it? If not then you probably don’t need to be getting back together. If the result of the two of you getting together is like a volcano exploding then you don’t need to get back together. All of this may be totally clear in your head but in theirs it may seem lie the world is crashing down. Do you get back together for them? That is going to have to be something that you decide when ex want to get back together.
Jaynie Maddison is a professional counsellor and is trained to work with people who are troubled about a relationship problem. She helps people think about their relationships and resolve some of the conflicts and tension
